About Tola Akinsulire

Tola Akinsulire

Hi there, I'm Tola Akinsulire. I'm the guy behind tolawrites.com (you already guessed, right?).

This website is the home of one of my life's passion. I write about how you can bring faith into everyday relationships so you can live a life that matters.

The central question I’m trying to answer here is, “How can we make Christ-focused decisions in all our life relationships?

In order to answer that question, I explain Christian truth in a way that you may not hear it often put. Perhaps not how you would hear it on Sunday in your church service. It’s pretty simple – you should hear it and tell yourself “I can live that out”

As I share Christ-focused ideas for living a life that matters, I believe you will start to create your own personal narrative.

You probably know that not all life relationships are equal. You need to start from the core and work your way out to the outer circle.

Once you sorted out the core, it’s easier to build on this and make your way to influencing the rest of your relationships.

In case this is sounding like gibberish to you, then you are in good company. I had this problem until I eventually came up with something that made sense to me. It’s what I describe as the Full Life Triangle. And it’s become the lens through which I frame my everyday decisions (more on that later)

As I share Christ-focused ideas for living a life that matters, I believe you will start to create your own personal narrative.

I don't merely write about stuff. I like to try out what I write for myself. They help me live as a better a follower of Jesus through my life expressions as a husband, father, employee and any more I find myself in per time.

In the end, my work here ends up being a one-part personal experiment and one-part discipleship. It's a blend of rich Christian livable truths and hard-earned wisdom.

The primary way that I share this information is through my posts, e-books, videos, courses, and weekly updates. You can sign up below. You'll only get information on how to live a Christ-focused life that matters. Nothing annoying or unexpected. And you would only get an email from me, at most 2 times a week

In order to answer that question, I explain Christian truth in a way that you may not hear it often put. Perhaps not how you would hear it on Sunday in your church service. It’s pretty simple – you should hear it and tell yourself “I can live that out”

I don't claim to have all the answers and I still have a lot to learn, but I'm happy to share what I've learned along the way. And they will be coming with a dose of humor

If you're ready to learn how to live a life that matters by making Christ-focused decisions in everyday relationships, I’ll give the spur you occasionally need along the way. 

Ps: if you are one of those folks who like personal stuff and feel this page is not complete without – this is for you.

  • Christian for over 25 years (I’m not that old).
  • Working in financial services & real estate for over 18 years (where did all the years go?)
  • Husband (I still can’t time-travel to my 25th wedding anniversary party)
  • Father (a job I can never retire from)
  • Served in leadership and non-leadership capacities in church organizations and not-for-profit organisations

You probably read more personal stuff from me if you subscribe.

Remember I mentioned how I put my life relationships through the Full Life Triangle lens?

You can get the 411 on that on this free course I created - Discover the 3 Relationships for a Life That Matters

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I believe that God has called you for something more

This course will give you a clearer sense of personal direction and focus.

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