Category Archives for "Serving Others"

Did Jesus Really Stay Dead For 3 Days Before Easter?

Did Jesus Really Stay Dead For 3 Days Before Easter?

I don’t know if you are like me. But I always like to ask all the “why”, “how”, “what” and “when” questions that come with Christianity. One of those “how” questions I asked for a long time was about Easter.

How could Jesus have stayed dead for 3 days if Easter says he was crucified on Friday evening and resurrected on Sunday morning? The math was not adding up

By my calculations, that seemed less than 72 hours if I go by the words of Jesus on the expected timeline for Him to stay dead.

For as Jonah was three days and three nights in the belly of a huge fish, so the Son of Man will be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth. – Matt 12:40

So, what happened here?

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Time To Stop Sharing Testimonies In Church

Time To Stop Sharing Testimonies In Church

I would like to share the testimony of this 30-year-old guy – it’s one of those really good testimonies.

He was working in the mailroom of a large multinational and had been there for a while just doing his job. There had been people that he even helped on the job who had now become management level staff now but he was still just a contract staff.

One morning, he got a call on his intercom to come to the Boardroom. He quickly grabbed his jacket, tried to straighten himself up and make a quick dash to meet them

Arriving there, he found out that the board and management team were having a strategy session.

The MD had spent the night thinking about an initiative but he could not adapt it to make it work for the organization. As it turned out, no one else in board or management team could either.

It was then that the head of administration unit (who once worked with the young man in the mailroom) suggested that they call him. In his words “this young man has a way of analyzing things and coming up with a plan for how they can work. He did that for me once”.

As it would turn out, the young man was able to do the same thing at the strategy session. The MD was so impressed that he made the guy the deputy CEO immediately and put him in charge of executing the initiative

So, in the morning a mailroom staff and afternoon deputy CEO, a senior management staff.

As you can imagine, everyone in church went high – most people were already claiming the testimony.

So, what is wrong with sharing this testimony?

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When Parents Do Their Jobs

When Parents Do Their Jobs

I am typically behind on social media so I only hear about the latest news when someone puts it up on one of the WhatsApp groups I belong to.

This week someone posted that one of the daughters of Yemi Osinbajo, Nigeria’s vice president & pastor in the Redeemed Christian church of God. Actually, that was not the big story. The big story was when someone claimed that the guy she was engaged to is a Muslim.

And so, began the next round of conversations. On one side – Pastor Yemi Osinbajo has failed as a parent and lost the moral ground to counsel people not to marry outside the Christian faith. On the other side – the girl is an adult, she can choose to marry whoever she chooses and it is not the fault of the parent if she chooses to marry outside the faith.

Well, the whole matter was put to rest the next day when someone posted this information from a news organization – “Our source also confirmed that Oluseun Bakare is a Christian and a worker in the Redeemed Christian Church of God.”

So, what was the whole hullabaloo about?

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Why I Don’t Pay Tithes

Why I Don’t Pay Tithes

During one of the lean times of one of the social causes I support, one of its officers had made an impassioned plea for voluntary contributions.

Along the lines of passion, he had asked that people consider giving their tithes because of the need that the social cause was supporting.

As you can imagine, this started the next episode of The Battle Of The Planets. The only problem was that no one could really tell who was Zoltar as everyone seemed to be playing Commander Mark.

Let’s just say we had a couple of “my church should always get my tithe”, “tithe is not for you” and so many other points of view you can add to the mix.

I don’t really think we came to one point of view that day but I guess that what you should expect. Any talk of money has a way of bringing out the superpowers that most church folks keep hidden for just that occasion.


What’s Tithe Got To Do?

So, what is all the hullabaloo on tithe?

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Why You May Not Have A Great Marriage.


A pastor, I respect, who has been married for over 25 years told an interesting aspect of his marriage.

He met his wife when he was just 17. One of the most significant memories of the early days of meeting his wife was that she gave him a nice bible. He was a non-practicing Catholic at the time and his wife was a backslidden pastor’s daughter.

He was born again reading that Bible in college and they were married at the age of 21. Today, they have three sons and two daughters, all of whom are following Jesus.

According to him, he and his wife have performed badly at every single compatibility test. The question after the tests is always “how are you both still together?”

Listening to this raises the age-old long question – how do you have a great marriage?

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